The Space Between Thought and Action
- Dr. Steve Fonso

- 5 days ago
- 2 min read
What if procrastination isn't really about laziness?
What if it's about the space between thought and action?
It's in that space that fear often begins to grow.
If you've ever struggled with procrastination, that hesitation between knowing what to do and actually doing it, you're certainly not alone.
We've all experienced it.
It's the moment we begin running through every possible outcome. We imagine what might go wrong, how we could fail, what other people might think, or whether we're making the "right" decision.
We're trying to protect ourselves.
But there's a hidden cost to staying there too long.
The longer we remain suspended between thought and action, the more opportunity fear has to fill the space.
Fear of failure.
Fear of making the wrong decision.
Fear of judgment.
And before long, we're no longer making decisions based on clarity.
We're making them based on fear.
Commitment Over Certainty
There's a story about General Norman Schwarzkopf, who led coalition forces during the Gulf War.
His advisors would spend days preparing different strategies, carefully outlining every possible outcome.
Before they could even finish presenting the options, he would often make his decision.
His advisors couldn't understand how he could decide so quickly after all the work they'd put into the planning.
His response was simple:
"You make a decision... and then you make it the right decision."
That perspective shifts everything.
Most of us spend our energy trying to discover the perfect decision.
Schwarzkopf spent his energy committing to the decision once it was made.
He wasn't waiting for certainty.
He was choosing commitment.
Once the decision was made, his attention shifted from deciding... to creating the best possible outcome.

Learning Through Action
Another story illustrates this beautifully.
A group of pottery students was divided into two classes.
One group was graded on quantity. Their goal was simply to create as many pieces as possible.
The other group was graded on quality. They had the same amount of time to create one exceptional piece.
Interestingly, the students producing the greatest quantity also ended up producing the highest-quality pottery.
Why?
Because they practiced.
They experimented.
They failed.
They adjusted.
While the other group spent much of their time planning, theorizing, and trying to perfect their single piece before ever beginning.
Action became the teacher.
Not thought.
Every decision improved the next decision.
Every attempt developed discernment.
Closing the Gap
This week, notice the space between thought and action.
How long do you stay there?
What stories begin to appear?
What fears begin filling the silence?
Then gently begin closing the gap.
Most of the decisions we make each day are not life-changing.
They're opportunities to strengthen our capacity to decide.
Every decision builds discernment.
Every action teaches us something.
Every step closes the gap between fear and possibility.
And perhaps that's the real cure for procrastination.




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