WHO, not HOW to Get Unstuck
Many times, we get stuck.
And our analytical mind gets trapped in the world of how.
How do I say this to someone?
How do I move forward with this?
How do I figure out how to...?
How do I get from A to B?
In the world of how, there are infinite ways to achieve something.
You know that little phrase, paralysis by analysis?
That's what I'm talking about.
And this paralysis turns fun into fine, excitement into exhaustion, and eager into meager.
Ask a Different Question
So what if, when you experience that paralysis, you asked a different question?
What if, to truly flourish, you asked WHO instead of HOW?
Who can help me break through this?
Who can help me communicate more effectively?
Who can help me see my choices more clearly?
Who has already gotten from A to B and can guide me?
Then close your eyes and notice who pops into your mind.
The Value of Another Voice
Your brain holds a memory of who has served different values throughout your life, and it has a remarkable way of distilling your experiences into priorities and probabilities.
And your brain, whether it's actually your brain is another blog, through this memory system, will sift through your history and look for the person who is most likely to help you get where you want to go.
And an additional trusted voice?
Well, that's invaluable.
WHO, Not HOW
The next time you feel frozen, ask WHO, not HOW.
And see who has quietly been waiting in the wings to become the next catalyst in helping you achieve what you're looking for.
Continue the Conversation
Who is someone you could ask for help instead of trying to figure it all out alone?
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